Will women want to use such a compound on themselves? That depends in part on whether it just enhances desire to have sex or does it also enhance the pleasurability of the sexual experience? Also, some women will want to defend themselves against having their sex drive manipulated by someone else without their knowledge. One way to do that defense would be to develop compounds that block the effect of whatever compound(s) that will be isolated and found to be involved in this effect. However, another line of defense is detection. Imagine a chemical strip that is designed to react only to the aphrodisiac. A woman could wear such a strip as, perhaps, a ribbon tying up her hair or somewhere else inconspicuous and then she could check whether the strip changed color while she was sitting in a bar or restaurant. A growing knowledge about what increases and decreases sexual drives is inevitably going to be used in the war between the sexes. Whether the net increase in knowledge will end up being used more by the offensive or the defensive or perhaps only under negotiated peace treaties remains to be seen. My guess is all of the above.Suppose this compound is identified. How it gets used will depend on how rapidly it works. If it works rapidly then expect guys to wear it as a perfume. If it takes a few hours to work then guys will want to go on longer dates to allow more time for it to take effect. If it takes days then it will be a lot harder for a single guy to use it for his own benefit. However men in longer term relationships or even men travelling with women on extended business trips would have obvious incentives to use it.